The Gamalibulu Women’s Council organized a fundraiser on the Wednesday before the GAD workshop. This was our second big northeast regional fundraiser for the market house. Other than these, each nakamal council (there are 8 in Lolovenue, our area) is responsible for donating 2000 vatu (20 bucks) to the project every month. We did a lot of planning for the fundraiser and divided up the work between the council members and the teachers at my school. Everything seemed to be ready to execute, risks mitigated, all that good stuff. Mr. Allen the class 5 teacher took the responsibility of organizing his yungfala friends to go diving for fish the night before the big day as the main meat. Well it turns out that Mr. Allen dropped the ball on that one and we woke up the next morning with no fish and a bunch of excuses, which actually just translates to them being too kava drunk to do what they said they would. This was a bummer because it meant we now had to pay a couple hundred bucks for chicken wings from town. Luckily, Mr. Allen acknowledged his major f up and went to his land and killed a cow for us to use! Saved by the bull!
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meat line! |
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eileeeeen |
The morning consisted of an excessive amount of scrambling trying to make things work, but eventually everything just fell into place. By 10 or so, there was local string band music blaring from the blown out speakers, the kava was being cleaned and ground (grinded? I just don’t know), and the enticing smells of brewing stew permeated the new school kitchen. This, by the way, was the kitchen’s big debut! My headmaster claims the school has no money, but then throws money into semi-unnecessary projects like a school kitchen. The kids bring their lunches to school so there isn’t a pressing need for a large fancy bush kitchen. It ended up costing over $2000, funds that could’ve gone towards teachers’ desks and school supplies. But! I’m unashamedly admitting that the school kitchen has served as a wonderful resource for the Women’s Council fundraisers. So I’ll bite my tongue and be grateful for a centralized place to cook enormous pots of rice and soup.
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verinda, stew master |
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rice comin through! |
I heard the plane fly in carrying all of the GAD members to Ambae for the workshop. They went to Tim’s school to get settled and after lunch, Dave hiked over to my site. If you know the path out of Tim’s valley of a school up to the main road, it’s pretty straightforward… but Dave doesn’t live here and ended up getting lost in the bush for an hour. An uncle ended up finding him and pointing him in the right direction and all was well. It’s always good to see Dave! He’s my best friend in the Peace Corps and we’re fortunate to have had our paths cross over and over again throughout service. Thank you, GAD Committee! So I showed him around my school and we took in the breeze by the ocean while he told me about his winding journey to my school- complete with eyeing the big black lizards thinking they would be his dinner if he was stuck out there at nightfall! Sorry Dave! The community gave us salusalus (leis) and I got an Ambae mat as a thank you.
We hung out with the mamas and eventually the other volunteers came. It was a tuturani overload. Tuturani means “white man” in language and I hear it all the time. In fact, the tip I gave to the incoming group last year in our volunteer profiles was to learn the local word for white man and repeat it back to them when you hear it. It still throws people off here. Tuturani is an interesting word, though, because it doesn’t have a negative connotation. Translated directly it means “go go kasem daylight” or work until the sun comes up, which ends up being a compliment here. So I hear people calling each other tuturani all the time—half-praising, half-cheeking the person for whatever they said/did/claim.
So yes, tuturani overload! In came Jo, Aaron, Lucas, Michelle, Cade, Tim, and Avery on a truck. Awo! We took some shells of kava, Avery played the guitar, and we danced around with the kids. They all headed back to Tim’s site around 9 and I willingly (yet wearily) joined the team of kava finishers until late in the evening. There is this ever-present dilemma at fundraisers pertaining to kava: either prepare way too much and have excess or not have enough to properly satiate the community, the latter being worse. In order to avoid the shortage, we had far too much and actually had trouble polishing it off. After the fundraiser ended, it was a long night hanging out in our usual kava drinking spot at my parents’ house with a group of kava-kicked manAmbae not wanting to see the root juice go to waste. Teamwork! Needless to say, we all slept great that night.
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cuz every little thing... |
The fundraiser was a huge success – we raised around 600 bucks after all the expenses were pulled out! This made the early morning cleaning not so daunting. After that, I hiked over to Tim’s site for a week and a half of peace corps playtime!
It’s that time of year again… Kamp GLOW/BILD TOT! Or in non-peace corps jargon, a training of trainers to teach volunteers and their Ni-Vanuatu counterparts how to run a youth empowerment camp called Camp GLOW/BILD or Girls Leading Our World/Boys in Leadership Development. Last year the TOT was held on Malekula and was one of my favorite weeks in the Peace Corps. This year it’s on Ambae at Tim’s site, St. Patrick’s Secondary School. The week is jam-packed with sessions on life skills, healthy relationships, adolescent reproductive health, and all things involving sex education. Mixed in are morning and night activities, sports, trust and team building events, and the week finishes with olympics and a talent show! Every volunteer/counterpart pair signs up to facilitate 2 or 3 sessions throughout the week. My job as a committee member is to co-facilitate and navigate all the tricky parts. The days are long (16+ hours, plus another hour of committee meeting) but it is such a rewarding experience and I have been looking forward to round 2 all year. And here it is!
Thursday, Friday, and Saturday were spent preparing for the TOT and orienting our newest member Cade to the world of GAD. Day 1 we went to town to grab lunch and enjoyed sunshine and saltwater on the beach in Saratamata. Jo and Aaron got to admire their mountainous island across the way, Maewo, and we spied some weeping waterfalls along the coast. Thomas’ dogs Shelly and Marj followed us back to St. Patricks for the week because Thomas was in Vila town.
A little about marj. Marj is Shelley’s last pup standing from her latest batch. She’s a few months old and follows Grace and Thomas around like, well, a loyal dog. Marj was her usual rambunctious self for the first few days, but then a new era arrived: The Slow Demise of Marj.
Marj just kept getting weaker and skinnier. The theory arose and was locally confirmed that she must’ve eaten a fish bone or two. This usually means the end. We gave her a lot of love and belly rubs, but it wasn’t looking good. More on this drama later…
Sunday the TOT begins! Everyone paints their faces, we take a group photo, we learn the rules of camp, and we play human bingo. Early dinner and early to bed to get ready for the hectic week ahead.
On Monday my favorite session kicked off the day – trust and team building. We started the morning with trust falls, human knots, and blind walks to get everyone a bit more comfortable with this inter-island cluster of Americans and Ni-Vanuatu. That afternoon we had a wonderful game of capture the flag; for some people this was their introduction into the oddly competitive but friendly world of capture the flag. For the rest of us, this afternoon invited playground nostalgia.
Tuesday we discussed personal beliefs and values, self-respect, how to find (and the importance of) your “stret partner” or the right person for you, and healthy communication. In the afternoon we played ultimate Frisbee and that night we had a building competition with local materials.
Wednesday’s theme is sex. Last year we had “sex on the beach” and led all the sessions by the saltwater, but Wednesday morning we were greeted with rain clouds and stayed indoors. There’s an expected long term drought here due to El Nino, so this weather was welcomed. Filling up the rain tanks one downpour at a time!
There are sessions on parts of the body, puberty change, sick moon, pregnancy, family planning, and what is sex. I had the pleasure of facilitating “wanemia seks” and leading the discussion on a wide and wild variety of questions pertaining to the topic. Sex Ed is so important and it was a great learning experience figuring out how to navigate some taboo and usually avoided subjects. In Bislama! That afternoon we did tie-dye, another first for many participants, and we made friendship bracelets as the evening activity. Another terrific day!
Thursday is STI/HIV day and a pretty heavy one at that. But the intense day closed off with a relaxing night on the black sand beach. The night was lovely— good sing-alongs, a blazing bonfire, and the ocean breeze. I did, however, have a short dance with danger near the end of the evening. I felt something crawling on me, probably an ant or another little critter, but then I looked and saw a flustered milpod scurrying away! I’ve fortunately never been bitten by one, but they are infamously painful biters! I tangoed with one on Moso island during training after I found it hiding in my sarong, but got away from that one too. Two narrow escapes under my belt (what belt?) Phew!
Friday morning I trekked to Lolowai to meet the Makila, a cargo ship carrying the market house materials! It was a busy morning of loading up trucks, but excitement was in the air at the prospect of the market house construction soon underway. The freight ended up costing 1700 USD, a big chunk of the grant money, but of course a necessary expense. That afternoon I got back to camp and took a shower – too many people commented on the pink and blue dye all over my legs from the Wednesday tie dye session. And I probably smelled, so a shower was called for. The hilarious camp olympics were that afternoon; superlatives and certificates, and then a big closing meal to wrap up the week. We had pig, freshwater prawns, beef, and other tasty kakae! After dinner was the talent show, which ended up being great. My thoughts on talent shows are that they’re always worth doing at least for a laugh or two at the random mix of acts. People come up with the oddest talents and they usually end up fitting together just how they should. Humans are great!
Saturday was close up shop day. We cleaned up the school and most of the participants and their counterparts found their way up to Ambanga to make the hike to the volcano the next day. The committee had a meeting to review the week and Michelle, Dave, and I stepped down and passed the torch to the g27 committee members. GAD was one of the best things I got involved with during my service, and it was time to hand over the responsibilities and refocus my energies on my site life and the market house project for the rest of my time here. That night the remaining 6 of us made another beach bonfire, cooked up some chicken wings, and drank kava to celebrate a successful week!
Sunday I headed back to site with Dave in tow. Last January, Laura and I went down to Tanna to visit his site and now he had a chance to check out my little slice of the pie! He already knows my papa from a Peace Corps training in Vila – they became quick pals, so it was a fun little Ambae reunion! The visit consisted of post-camp relaxation, really good meals, and my favorite card game spite and malice. On Wednesday we headed to the airport. Dave was heading back through Vila to go to Tanna, I was going in for medical (all is okay!) and a big surprise was that my papa was flying in for an orientation before his trip to… China. Yes, China! That’s about as wild of a transition as you can get (bush life on a remote island to Shanghai, Beijing, etc) and I was looking forward to hearing all about it. I lent him my camera and we had a tutorial at the airport so he couldn’t come up with “I couldn’t get it to work” or “I didn’t know how to charge it” nonpicturetaking excuses. This would be an adventure worth documenting. More on papa goes to China in another post.
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papooski! |
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triplets |
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papa's first picture. deep |
My very first time in Ambae back in February 2014 for our wokabaot week, I used the airport bush toilet. My memories of it were not pretty. And they didn’t smell good. And there were spiders and other critters crawling all over the place while I pooped. It was branded in my mind as worst bush toilet ever. So I’ve been pretty careful as to not have to use it again – maybe I’d go somewhere in town beforehand or I wouldn’t drink too much water. Well we were at the airport and I really needed to go. So I toughened up and slogged over to the toilet. And guess what? It wasn’t so bad after all. In fact, it was far better than most toilets I’d squatted in over my last 20 months! I lingered a bit just for kicks, relishing in this newfound sense of pit toilet contentment. It’s amazing what a year and a half will do for your soul. Perspective is truly everything!
So I know you’re on the edge of your seat with the unfinished story of … deliberate paws… Marj’s fate! Well the great news is that she is back to being a healthy, happy pup. The bones passed (I love how this is the proper way of saying she pooped out the fish bones she ate) and all of her borderline-obnoxious puppy tendencies returned. Long live Marjarin!